Three Pathways to Transform Your Life Through Awareness
When people say they have bad karma, they often feel stuck, as if they’re being punished by an invisible force. But karma isn’t punishment—it’s simply energy, patterns you’ve created that flow through your life like a river through a canyon.
Imagine you’re a gardener. Every thought and action is a seed. Some grow into flowers, others into weeds. The garden you have today came from seeds planted yesterday, last year, even in previous lifetimes. The exciting news? You’re still the gardener. You can plant new seeds today that transform tomorrow’s garden.
Karma means ‘action’ in Sanskrit. Your actions—including thoughts—create energy patterns that aren’t frozen in stone. They’re like weather patterns: constantly moving, changing, responding to new conditions you create.
Understanding karma as energy patterns rather than punishment changes everything. It means you have power. Your present choices matter. You can reduce stress, discover inner peace, and create genuine joy by learning to work with the energy you generate moment by moment.
This article guides you through three practical pathways to transform your karmic energy patterns, each with simple practices you can use immediately to shift your energy and experience real change.
Pathway 1: Observe Others as Mirrors of Your Own Journey
Every person you meet mirrors something about your own path. When you notice someone gossiping, being unkind, or making unhealthy choices, you’re recognizing patterns you’ve already moved beyond. You learned those lessons, perhaps in this lifetime or previous ones. Now you see the patterns clearly when others live them.
This creates an opportunity: instead of judging others, use what you observe to strengthen your own wisdom. Each time you recognize an unhealthy pattern in someone else, you’re reinforcing the lesson you learned when you moved beyond that pattern yourself.
When you judge others harshly, you’re judging yourself. You once had similar lessons to learn. Judging someone in the middle of their learning process is like condemning a student for not knowing what they haven’t been taught yet. Instead of judgment, offer a silent blessing. This takes only a moment, costs nothing, and creates positive energy benefiting both of you.
PRACTICE: The Observer’s Awareness
Time: 2-3 minutes
Step 1: Find Your Center
Take three slow breaths. Feel your feet on the ground, the chair supporting you. This awareness brings you into the present moment, where real change happens.
Step 2: Notice Without Attaching
When you observe someone behaving unhealthily, simply notice it like a cloud passing in the sky. Don’t grab onto it with criticism. Just see it.
Sensory Check:
- Does your chest feel tight when you judge? That’s tension.
- Does your breath become shallow? That’s stress.
- Do your shoulders rise toward your ears? That’s holding negative energy.
Step 3: Recognize the Lesson
Ask yourself quietly: “Have I learned this lesson already?” If you can see the pattern clearly, the answer is probably yes. You’ve moved beyond this. Acknowledge your growth.
Step 4: Offer a Silent Blessing
In your mind, say something simple: “May you learn this lesson with ease” or “May you find your way to wisdom.” Notice how this feels different from judgment.
Sensory Check:
- Does your chest open slightly? That’s compassion.
- Does your breath deepen? That’s peace.
- Do you feel lighter? That’s positive energy flowing.
Practice this daily when you notice others’ patterns. Each blessing plants a seed of positive karma.
By observing others with awareness instead of judgment, you reinforce your own wisdom, create positive energy, and honor everyone’s unique path. This single shift can significantly reduce stress because you’re no longer carrying the heavy weight of constant criticism.
Pathway 2: Transform Your Daily Choices Into Wisdom Practice
Your daily life is full of moments where you can either strengthen positive patterns or reinforce negative ones. Think of each moment as a fork in the road. Every choice—what you eat, how you speak, how you treat your body, what thoughts you entertain—sends you down one path or another.
Your body is incredibly sensitive to energy. When you make a healthy choice, your body often feels lighter, more alive, more clear. When you make an unhealthy choice, you might feel heavier, cloudier, or more tired. These aren’t just physical sensations—they’re feedback from your energy system telling you about the karmic pattern you’re creating.
PRACTICE: The Choice Point Awareness
Time: Use this throughout your day at decision points
Step 1: Pause at the Crossroads
When you face any choice—what to eat, whether to gossip, how to respond to someone—take one breath before deciding. This tiny pause creates space for wisdom to emerge.
Step 2: Feel Into Both Paths
Imagine taking Path A (the less healthy choice). Notice what happens in your body:
- Does your energy drop slightly? That’s your intuition speaking.
- Do you feel a subtle heaviness? That’s stagnant energy.
- Does something feel ‘off’? That’s your soul’s guidance.
Now imagine taking Path B (the healthier choice). Notice what happens:
- Does your chest open? That’s expansion.
- Do you feel lighter? That’s positive energy.
- Does something feel ‘right’? That’s alignment with your true self.
Step 3: Choose the Path of Life
Based on what you felt in your body, choose the path that creates more life, more light, more energy. This is how you plant positive seeds.
Step 4: Notice the Immediate Shift
After making the healthier choice, pause again. Feel what happened:
- Do you feel a quiet sense of rightness? That’s alignment.
- Is there a subtle inner smile? That’s your soul celebrating.
- Do you stand a little taller? That’s empowerment.
This isn’t about perfection. You won’t always choose the healthier path, and that’s okay. This practice is about awareness. The more you notice the energy difference between choices, the more naturally you’ll choose what serves you.
These small daily choices might seem insignificant, but they’re not. Each positive choice is like adding a drop of clear water to a muddy pond. At first, you might not see much change. But drop by drop, choice by choice, the water becomes clearer. This is how negative karma transforms—gradually, naturally, through the accumulation of conscious choices.
Celebrate each small victory. You don’t need to change everything at once. Just make one healthier choice today. Then another tomorrow. Let your choices build on each other, creating momentum toward greater wellbeing, wisdom, and inner peace.
Pathway 3: Release Judgment and Take Your Lessons Deeper
The third pathway involves a subtle but powerful shift: learning to observe yourself and others without the harsh voice of judgment. Judgment itself creates negative energy that keeps you stuck in old patterns.
When you harshly judge yourself, you create a division within your own being. Part of you becomes the judge, and part becomes the judged. The judged part often feels shame, anger, or resentment. These feelings create their own negative patterns, leading to more of the behavior you’re trying to change. It’s a vicious cycle.
The same applies to judging others. When you quickly condemn someone for gossiping, it often means you’re still working on that lesson yourself. If you had fully moved beyond it, you would simply notice it with compassion, the way you might notice someone learning to ride a bike. You wouldn’t condemn them for wobbling—you’d recognize they’re in the learning process.
There’s a middle way between harsh judgment and denial. You can clearly see when something isn’t serving you or someone else, and hold yourself to high standards, without the toxic energy of condemnation. This is called calm observation, and it’s one of the most powerful tools for creating positive karma.
Calm observation means you notice what’s happening, recognize whether it’s healthy or unhealthy, and choose what to do next—all without getting emotionally hijacked by judgment. This creates space for wisdom to guide your response.
PRACTICE: The Compassionate Observer
Time: 5 minutes, plus use throughout the day
Step 1: Meet Your Inner Critic
Sit comfortably and close your eyes. Bring to mind something you typically judge yourself for—maybe a habit you want to change or a recent mistake. Notice the voice of self-criticism that arises.
Sensory Check:
- Where do you feel the judgment in your body? Throat? Chest? Stomach?
- Does it feel tight or constricted? That’s blocked energy.
- Is there heaviness or darkness there? That’s the weight of judgment.
Step 2: Thank the Critic and Shift to Observation
Say silently to the critical voice: “Thank you for trying to protect me. I hear you.” Then imagine stepping back slightly, as if you’re watching yourself on a screen. You can see the behavior or pattern clearly, but you’re not drowning in judgment about it.
Now say to yourself with gentleness: “I see this pattern. It doesn’t serve me. I’m learning to choose differently.” Notice how different this feels from harsh self-criticism.
Sensory Check:
- Does the tightness soften even slightly? That’s compassion.
- Can you breathe more deeply? That’s space opening.
- Do you feel even a little warmth toward yourself? That’s love.
Step 3: Rewrite the Message
Whatever harsh message the critic gave you, rewrite it into something empowering:
- Critic: “You always mess this up.” → Rewrite: “I’m learning, and each attempt teaches me something valuable.”
- Critic: “You’re not disciplined enough.” → Rewrite: “I’m building new patterns one choice at a time.”
Step 4: Connect With Your Deeper Wisdom
Place one hand on your heart. Take three deep breaths. Ask your inner wisdom: “What would serve me best in this situation?” Then listen quietly. The answer often comes as a feeling, an intuition, or a gentle knowing rather than words.
Sensory Check:
- Do you feel warmth under your hand? That’s your heart opening.
- Is there a sense of settling or peace? That’s your soul speaking.
- Does an insight arise quietly? That’s your inner wisdom.
Practice this whenever you notice judgment arising—toward yourself or others. Over time, this creates completely different energy in your life. Instead of the harsh, contracted energy of criticism, you generate the open, flowing energy of compassionate awareness.
Once you learned not to gossip about others, the next level is learning not to gossip about yourself. The critical voice in your head that constantly judges and condemns you is just another form of gossip—internal gossip that creates the same negative energy.
Every karmic lesson has levels. As you master one level, life invites you to go deeper, to refine your understanding, to become more conscious and more loving.
When you can see clearly without getting caught in emotional reactivity, you have space to ask: “What’s the deeper lesson here?” This question connects you to your soul’s wisdom, and your soul always knows the path forward.
Bringing It All Together: Your Karmic Practice
You now have three powerful pathways for transforming your karma:
- Observe others as mirrors—recognize the lessons you’ve learned and bless those who are still learning them.
- Transform your daily choices—use your body’s wisdom to feel the energy difference between healthy and unhealthy choices, then choose what creates life.
- Release judgment—observe yourself and others with compassionate awareness instead of harsh criticism, creating space for deeper wisdom to emerge.
These three pathways work together like strands of a rope, each strengthening the others. When you observe others with compassion, you naturally become more compassionate with yourself. When you make healthier choices in your daily life, you feel better, which makes it easier to observe without judgment. When you release judgment, you create space to see your choices more clearly.
Understanding Karma as Dynamic Energy
There’s no such thing as being totally good or totally bad. Karma is a dynamic system, constantly changing based on your thoughts and actions in each moment. Whatever your karmic situation is right now, it can shift. You’re not permanently stuck in negative patterns.
This means every moment is an opportunity. You don’t need to wait until tomorrow to start creating positive karma. You can start right now, with this breath, with this thought, with this choice.
Think of karma like a river. A river is never the same from one moment to the next. Water is constantly flowing, constantly changing. Your karma works the same way. The patterns you created yesterday are flowing into today, but you’re adding new water to the river right now with every thought and action. Over time, this changes the river completely.
The Benefits You’ll Experience
As you practice these three pathways, you’ll notice real changes:
- Reduced stress and anxiety: When you stop carrying the burden of harsh judgment, you’ll feel significantly lighter.
- Greater emotional stability: Connecting with your inner wisdom creates a stable center that doesn’t get tossed around by external circumstances.
- Increased confidence: When you realize you’re creating your experience through your choices, you feel empowered rather than victimized.
- Inner peace and joy: You’ll discover a quiet joy that doesn’t depend on external circumstances.
Where to Begin
You don’t need to do everything at once. Pick one practice that resonates with you and work with it for a week. Notice what shifts. Then gradually add the other practices as they feel natural.
Most importantly, bring gentle awareness to each moment. You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be present. When you notice yourself slipping into judgment, simply notice it and choose again. When you make an unhealthy choice, don’t pile criticism on top of it—just observe it and choose differently next time.
Each small victory matters. Each moment of awareness matters. Each conscious choice matters. They all add up, gradually transforming the garden of your life from one dominated by weeds to one filled with beautiful flowers.
Your soul—your timeless essence—is always with you, always guiding you toward greater light and love. Listen to its quiet voice beneath the mental chatter. Feel its wisdom in your heart. Trust its guidance as you navigate each day’s choices.
As you practice these pathways, may you discover the stable love and wisdom that your cosmic soul eternally shares with you. May you find the inner peace and joy that is your birthright. And may each day bring you into ever deeper alignment with your true divine essence, the source of all positive karma and all genuine wellbeing.
Begin now. Take one conscious breath. Feel yourself here, alive, present, and capable of change. This moment is your doorway to positive karma.
Joel Bruce Wallach
I blog quite often and I seriously thank you for your
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I’m going to bookmark your website and keep checking for
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Dear Joel,
You are right, thank you. In both the ultimate and relative sense, I appreciate your perspective. Thank you again for taking the time.
Lapril,
Self-empowerment is available for each of us, when we claim it and practice it. May all beings be graced with the ability to recognize their potential, and to embody it.
Dear Joel thank you for your interest in helping us. I have become entangled with someone energetically and Feel locked and unable to fully command my energy. I feel this person’s techniques exceed me exceed my knowledge and I wonder do you think that when this person dies I will remain locked up? Or do you think when they die I will be released?
Lapril,
You’re defining this situation in a way that does not empower you. Let’s redefine the situation:
– Instead of trying to entirely release their energy all at once, release 10% per day. It could be more or less – this is simply a way to think of it that will seem less difficult.
– Learn techniques for releasing energy. Be responsible for learning how to help yourself:
– https://cosmic-living.com/articles/how-to-clear-your-energy-blocks/
– https://cosmic-living.com/articles/how-to-give-yourself-a-centered-radiant-aura/
– https://cosmic-living.com/articles/cleanse-your-home-and-office-with-sky-aura-clearing/
You don’t have to wait until this person dies; that’s a passive attitude that weakens your personal power. Educate yourself, treat yourself with respect, and take back your personal space. The cosmic divine energy that you are made of is ultimately more powerful than any negative person.
I believe I am being punished for something I did I long ago. Is this karma?
Louie,
You are not being punished. The divine universe would do no such thing to you.
Karma is the result of old past-life behaviors. These events have created negative patterns. Your job is to shift the pattern.
Release the old pattern, ask for forgiveness, and create new positive patterns, so that you can live in a more balanced and positive flow of energy.
Thank you Joel, to sharing this wonderful Karma thought. However, I have only two question to ask you 1. Why every human has retains their good and bad karma from past life whatever it is, Why they not die while we released our old soul and born in to new soul. 2. In “truth decade” whenever human thought about supreme god with his heart within few second god will give reply or he may present at same spot, now days telepathy power does not exist?
Once again i am really thank you for sharing this karma words.
Fascinating questions, Vatsal —
1. The whole purpose of retaining karma is so that you have a chance to utilize the karmic experiences to learn more deeply. If it all dissolved after the lifetime ended, then you would have to start from zero in each lifetime, and you would never learn anything deeper. It would be like starting in first grade at school, every day; a pointless existence where you never learned advanced studies.
2. It is your task to develop your subtle sensing. Quiet the mind, stay centered in the body, and notice the subtle insights that emerge. There are many techniques described on this website, and there are mp3 studies that help you develop your deeper awareness.
https://cosmic-living.com/bundled-audio-training-mp3-sets/
I enjoy looking through a post that can make men and women think.
Also, many thanks for permitting me to comment!
That’s really helpful for everyone to change their mind and live peacefully
Thanks for sharing
Thank you, Reet.
Many blessings!
Hi Joel,
I loved this article which quite explains to my inner self why I’m in this position right now. Thank you!
May you be blessed thousand folds.
Ellen,
Thank you for exploring this topic. May each day bring you closer to your goals, with ease and grace.
I loved this article, took me a bit to get through it…I needed time to process. Wow, have I had it wrong. Then I read rasce’s comments on Feb 8, and then the retraction made by the real respondent. I had to laugh, it illustrated the points in the article in a humorous way!!! It really felt like the ego and the soul conversing. CLASSIC!!!
J,
Yes, exactly… ego vs soul — so true to life, and so funny!
What advice would you give someone who gets judged over and over for many years for an action that is not even taking place but may have 30 years ago? People still gossiping over that old behavior and how not to let it affect you by becoming angry and acting out in other damaging ways as a result of their constant negative vibrations–what can be done?
This was a great article, thank you!
TS,
Glad you liked the article. I believe you can utilize it for this situation you’re describing.
Though it’s a bothersome situation, here’s how you might address it:
Forgive the people judging you for the past event.
Individually forgive each of these components:
their words; their facial expressions; their actions; and their thoughts.
Each time you forgive something, imagine releasing its energy from your personal space.
And of course, forgive each element of your actions, whatever they may have been, regarding the past event, too.
Dear Joel,
Thank you for sharing your insights.
Words cannot express my gratitude for you having shared this knowledge with so many other people, including myself. It has struck a cord with me, indeed, as it has with many other people here. I also must say that it has made me think of difficult situations I’v been in, very differently, in a more clear, positive, and wise manner. Its like when someone says the truth and you unflinchingly know he/she is right, but you just can’t quite explain it.
God Bless you,
Cheers,
HP
HP,
Many thanks. May all difficult paths become smoother through our elegant conscious response to life experiences!
Hi Joel,
This is by far one of the most life changing things I’ve ever read. Thank you for sharing the wisdom and putting things into perspective. Before I stumbled on your article, I was looking up on why no one has ever noticed me romantically. Not to sound cocky, but I believe I’m decent looking. After reading your first recommendation on observation, a thought flashed into my mind … yes, like some kind truth, and I immediately know why I am in the life that I am and seeking out some answers to why I am not romantically involved; the voice immediately pointed out that I subconsciously look down on myself. This lack of appreciation for myself and everything else I have, be it family, friends or career makes me undesirable … even my mind wad wired to that negative feelings towards myself. With this new awareness, I have made it a point to 1. accept it as a current reality 2. acknowledge that I have the choice to think differently and 3. make every conscious effort to develop a more positive thought pattern. Thank you so much again for being the answer to my question.
BB,
Thanks for exploring. You’re having some useful insights.
Now it’s time to be your own best friend. A true friend is someone who knows that you’re capable of much more, but is also completely accepting of you, even when you have problems and apparent limitations.
So love yourself where you’re at each day, and you’ll move forward more gracefully. And as you befriend yourself, the right person will be able to find you more easily, too.
Thank you. I’ll work on it as best as I can. And when the right person come along, I’ll remember this. I’ll pay it forward by spreading your wisdom too. May the Universe bless you Joel 🙂
Hey Joel. This was really interesting. It spoke to me in ways I have never contemplated before. I do understand a little bit about Karma but it’s clear now that it’s not enough. Each day teaches us so much. After this short explanation of yours, it’ll make it easier to understand the lessons in each moment and act on them. Is there any advice you can give regarding furthering my investigation on this subject to attain inner peace? An email would be nice. Thank you
Vijay,
Regarding inner peace, please explore this:
You review each day,
you release judgment about self and others,
and you look at what how you might have done better.
Then, you visualize yourself doing those improved behaviors.
This was absolutely stunning and spoke straight to my soul, thankyou so much for this piece of writing, great work!
Thank you, Ellie
May you experience divine ease and grace each day.
do you guys honestly believe this garbage? and do you truly talk like this? “let it ease your sole”… this trash is stupid.
and bro, your mustache and eyebrows are terrible
sorry, that was my friend. I and doing an inquiry paper in how luck and karma exist and how they affect us everyday, and i had your website open as a resource, and he left the comments. I am very sorry.
No worries, Rasce. Your friend is exploring consciousness at his own rate of discovery, and he will no doubt become more aware as the years go by.
Hi Joel, From my study of Buddhism you’re partly incorrect. You can’t change bad karma with good deeds. Karma is the result of your past speech, thoughts and actions. As a result of your past, it’s unchangeable. To ad to the complexity, karma can come instantly or delayed. However if you begin to practice good speech, thought and actions you will have good karma in the future. As an anecdote; some Tibetan Buddhists welcome horrific life circumstances(eg. cancer) as a chance to burn off bad karma.
Jakedog,
Thank you for sharing your understanding of Buddhism. The insights I share come from my reading of energy. According to my sensing of how energy works, energy patterns can be changed.
Energy patterns — past, present, or future, are malleable, and it is worthwhile for us to tune into these energies and heal them. If this understanding is not known to some Buddhists, that is because they may be unaware of other traditions, such as Taoism, in which the knowledge of how energy can shift is understood.
There is much we can learn from the mindfulness practices of Buddhism, and when we combine that practice with a deeper understanding of energy, we will all benefit.
Regarding those who “welcome cancer” as a way to burn off karma, this is a limited understanding of energy, and it reflects a narrow view of what is actually possible in terms of transmutation, transformation, transcendence, and deeper spiritual healing.